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CHAPTER 30
Remedies against
Pride
SECTION I
General Remedies
We have already
called the deadly or capital sins the sources of all iniquity. They are
the roots of the mighty tree of vice, and if we can destroy them the
trunk and branches must soon decay. With them, therefore, we shall
begin, following the example of Cassian and other spiritual writers, who
were so firmly convinced that if they could only rout these enemies the
defeat of the others would be an easy task.
St. Thomas
gives us a profound reason for this. All sin, he says, proceeds from
self-love, for we never commit sin without coveting some gratification
for self. From self-love spring those three branches of sin mentioned by
St. John: "the concupiscence of the flesh, the concupiscence of the
eyes, and the pride of life" (1Jn. 2:16), which are love of
pleasure, love of riches, and love of honors. Three of the deadly sins,
lust, gluttony, and sloth, spring from love of pleasure, pride springs
from love of honors, and covetousness from love of riches. The remaining
two, anger and envy, serve all these unlawful loves. Anger is aroused by
any obstacle which prevents us from attaining what we desire, and envy
is excited when we behold anyone possessing what our self-love claims.
These are the three roots of the seven deadly sins, and consequently of
all the others. Let these chiefs be destroyed and the whole army will
soon be routed. Hence we must vigorously attack these mighty giants who
dispute our entrance to the promised land.
The first and
most formidable of these enemies is pride, that inordinate desire of our
own excellence, which spiritual writers universally regard as the father
and king of all the other vices. Hence Tobias, among the numerous good
counsels which he gave his son, particularly warns him against pride:
"Never suffer pride to reign in thy mind or in thy words, for from
it all perdition took its beginning." (Job. 4:14). Whenever,
therefore, you are attacked by this vice, which may justly be called a
pestilence, defend yourself with the following considerations:
First reflect
on the terrible punishment which the angels brought upon themselves by
one sin of pride. They were instantly cast from Heaven into the lowest
depths of Hell. Consider how this fall transformed Lucifer, the prince
of the angelic hosts, and the bright and beautiful star surpassing in
splendor the sun itself. In one moment he lost all his glory, and became
not only a demon but the chief of demons. If pure spirits received such
punishment, what can you expect, who are but dust and ashes? God is ever
the same, and there is no distinction of persons before His justice.
Pride is as
odious to Him in a man as in an angel, while humility is equally
pleasing to Him in both. Hence St. Augustine says, "Humility makes
men angels, and pride makes angels devils." And St. Bernard tells
us, "Pride precipitates man from the highest elevation to the
lowest abyss, but humility raises him from the lowest abyss to the
highest elevation. Through pride the angels fell from Heaven to Hell,
and through humility man is raised from earth to Heaven."
After this,
reflect on that astonishing example of humility given us by the Son of
God, who for love of us took upon Himself a nature so infinitely beneath
His own, and "became obedient unto death, even the death of the
cross." (Phil. 2:8). Let the example of your God teach you,
O man, to be obedient. Learn, O dust, to humble yourself. Learn, O clay,
to appreciate your baseness. Learn from your God, O Christian, to be
"meek and humble of heart." (Matt. 11:29). If you
disdain to walk in the footsteps of men, will you refuse to follow your
God, who died not only to redeem us but to teach us humility? Look upon
yourself and you will find sufficient motives for humility. Consider
what you were before your birth, what you are since your birth, and what
you will be after death. Before your birth you were, for a time, an
unformed mass; now a fair but false exterior covers what is doomed to
corruption; and in a little while you will be the food of worms. Upon
what do you pride yourself, O man, whose birth is ignominy, whose life
is misery, whose end is corruption? If you are proud of your riches and
worldly position, remember that a few years more and death will make us
all equal. We are all equal at birth with regard to our natural
condition; and as to the necessity of dying, we shall all be equal at
death, with this important exception: that those who possessed most
during life will have most to account for in the day of reckoning.
"Examine,"
says St. Chrysostom, "the graves of the rich and powerful of this
world, and find, if you can, some trace of the luxury in which they
lived, of the pleasures they so eagerly sought and so abundantly
enjoyed. What remains of their magnificent retinues and costly
adornments? What remains of those ingenious devices destined to gratify
their senses and banish the weariness of life? What has become of that
brilliant society by which they were surrounded1 Where are the numerous
attendants who awaited their commands? Nothing remains of their
sumptuous banquets. The sounds of laughter and mirth are no longer
heard; a somber silence reigns in these homes of the dead. But draw
nearer and see what remains of their earthly tenements, their bodies
which they loved too much. Naught but dust and ashes, worms and
corruption."
This is the
inevitable fate of the human body, however tenderly and delicately
nurtured. Ah! Would to God that the evil ended here! But more terrible
still is all that follows death: the dread tribunal of God's justice;
the sentence passed upon the guilty; the weeping and gnashing of teeth;
the tortures of the worm that never dies; and the fire which will never
be extinguished.
Consider also
the danger of vainglory, the daughter of pride, which as St. Bernard
says, enters lightly but wounds deeply. Therefore, when men praise you,
think whether you really possess the qualities for which they commend
you. If you do not, you have no reason to be proud. But if you have
justly merited their praise, remember the gifts of God, and say with the
Apostle, "By the grace of God I am what I am." (1Cor.
15:10). Humble yourself, then, when you hear the song of praise, and
refer all to the glory of God. Thus you will render yourself not
unworthy of what He bestows upon you. For it is incontestable that the
respect men pay you, and the good for which they honor you, are due to
God. You rob Him, therefore, of all the merit which you appropriate to
yourself. Can any servant be more unfaithful than one who steals his
master's glory? Consider, moreover, how unreasonable it is to rate your
merit by the inconstant opinion of men who today are for you, and
tomorrow against you; who today honor you, and tomorrow revile you. If
your merit rests upon so slight a foundation, at one time you will be
great, at another base, and again nothing at all, according to the
capricious variations of the minds of men.
Oh, no; do not
rely upon the vain commendations of others, but upon what you really
know of yourself. Though men extol you to the skies, listen to the
warnings of your conscience and accept the testimony of this intimate
friend rather than the blind opinion of those who can judge you only
from a distance and by what they hear. Make no account of the judgments
of men, but commit your glory to the care of God, whose wisdom will
preserve it for you and whose fidelity will restore it to you in the
sight of angels and men.
Be mindful
also, O ambitious man, of the dangers to which you expose yourself by
seeking to command others, How can you command when you have not yet
learned to obey? How can you take upon yourself the care of others when
you can hardly account for yourself? Consider what a risk you incur by
adding to your own sins those of persons subject to your authority. Holy
Scripture tells us that they who govern will be severely judged, and
that the mighty shall be mightily tormented. (Cf. Wis. 6:6). Who
can express the cares and troubles of one who is placed over many? We
read of a certain king who, on the day of his coronation, took the crown
in his hands, and, gazing upon it, exclaimed, "O crown richer in
thorns than in happiness, did one truly know thee he would not stoop to
pick thee up even if he found thee lying at his feet."
Again, O proud
man, I would ask you to remember that your pride is displeasing to all
to God, who resists the proud and gives His grace to the humble (Cf.
James 4:6); to the humble, who hold in horror all that savors of
arrogance; and to the proud themselves, who naturally hate all who claim
to be greater than they. Nor will you be pleasing to yourself. For if it
ever be given to you in this world to enter into yourself and recognize
the vanity and folly of your life, you will certainly be ashamed of your
littleness. And if you do not correct it here, still less satisfaction
will it afford you in the next world, where it will bring upon you
eternal torments.
St. Bernard
tells us that if we truly knew our hearts we would be displeasing to
ourselves, which alone would make us pleasing to God; but because we do
not know ourselves we are inflated with pride and therefore hateful in
His sight. The time will come when 'we shall be odious to God and to
ourselves to God because of our crimes, and to ourselves because of
the punishment they will bring upon us. Our pride pleases the devil
only; for as it was pride which changed him from a pure and beautiful
angel into a spirit of malice and deformity, he rejoices to find this
evil reducing others to his unhappy state.
Another
consideration which will help you acquire humility is the thought of the
little you have done purely for God. How many vices assume the mask of
virtue! How frequently vainglory spoils our best works! How many times
actions which shine with dazzling splendor before men have no beauty
before God! The judgments of God are different from those of men. A
humble sinner is less displeasing in His sight than a proud just man, if
one who is proud can be called just.
Nevertheless,
though you have performed good works, do not forget your evil deeds,
which probably far exceed your works of virtue, and which may be so full
of faults and so negligently performed that you have more reason to ask
to be forgiven for them than to hope for reward. Hence St. Gregory says:
"Alas for the most virtuous life, if God judge it without mercy,
for those things upon which we rely most may be the cause of the
greatest confusion to us. Our bad actions are purely evil, but our good
actions are seldom entirely good, but are frequently mixed with much
that is imperfect. Your works, therefore, ought to be a subject of fear
rather than confidence, after the example of holy Job, who says, 'I
feared all my works, knowing that thou didst not spare the offender.
'" (Job 9:28).
SECTION II
Particular
Remedies
Since humility
comes from a knowledge of ourselves, pride necessarily springs from
ignorance of ourselves. Whoever, therefore, seriously desires to acquire
humility must earnestly labor to know himself. How, in fact, can he be
otherwise than humbled who, looking into his heart with the light of
truth, finds himself filled with sins; defiled with the stains of sinful
pleasures; the sport of a thousand errors, fears, and caprices; the
victim of innumerable anxieties and petty cares; oppressed by the weight
of a mortal body; so forward in evil and so backward in good? Study
yourself, then, with serious attention, and you will find in yourself
nothing of which to be proud.
But there are
some who, though humbled at the sight of their failings, are
nevertheless excited to pride when they examine the lives of others whom
they consider less virtuous than themselves. Those who yield to this
illusion ought to reflect, though they may excel their neighbors in some
virtues, that in others they are inferior to them. Beware, then, lest
you esteem yourself and despise your neighbor because you are more
abstemious and industrious, when he is probably much more humble, more
patient, and more charitable than you. Let your principal labor,
therefore, be to discover what you lack, and not what you possess.
Study the
virtues which adorn the soul of your neighbor rather than those with
which you think yourself endowed. You will thus keep yourself in
sentiments of humility, and increase in your soul a desire for
perfection. But if you keep your eyes fixed on the virtues, real or
imaginary, which you possess, and regard in others only their failings,
you will naturally prefer yourself to them, and thus you will become
satisfied with your condition and cease to make any efforts to advance.
If you find
yourself inclined to take pride in a good action, carefully watch the
feelings of your heart, bearing in mind that this satisfaction and
vainglory will destroy all the merit of your labor. Attribute no good to
yourself, but refer everything to God. Repress all suggestions of pride
with the beautiful words of the great Apostle: "What hast thou that
thou hast not received? And if thou hast received, why dost thou glory
as if thou hadst not received it?" (1Cor. 4:7). When your
good works are practices of supererogation or perfection, unless your
position requires you to give an example, do not let your right hand
know what your left hand does, for vainglory is more easily excited by
good works done in public.
When you feel
sentiments of vanity or pride rising in your heart, hasten to apply a
remedy immediately. One that is most efficacious consists in recalling
to mind all your sins, particularly the most shameful. Like a wise
physician, you will thus counteract the effect of one poison by another.
Imitate the peacock, and when you feel yourself inflated with pride turn
your eyes upon your greatest deformity, and your vanity will soon fall
to the ground. The greater your position the greater should be your
humility, for there is not much merit in being humble in poverty and
obscurity. If you know how to preserve humility in the midst of honors
and dignities you will acquire real merit and virtue, for humility in
the midst of greatness is the grandest accompaniment of honors, the
dignity of dignities, without which there is no true excellence. If you
sincerely desire to acquire humility you must courageously enter the
path of humiliation, for if you will not endure humiliations you will
never become humble. Though many are humbled without diminishing their
pride, humiliation, as St. Bernard tells us, is nevertheless the path to
humility, as patience is the path to peace, and study to learning. Be
not satisfied, therefore, with humbly obeying God, but be subject to all
creatures for love of Him. (Cf. 1Pet. 2:13).
In another
place St. Bernard speaks of three kinds of fear with which he would have
us guard our hearts. "Fear," he says, "when you are in
possession of grace, lest you may do something unworthy of it; fear when
you have lost grace, because you are deprived of a strong protection;
and fear when you have recovered grace, lest you should again lose
it." Thus you will never trust to your own strength; the fear of
God which will fill your heart will save you from presumption.
Be patient in
bearing persecution, for the patient endurance of affronts is the
touchstone of true humility. Never despise the poor and abject, for
their misery should move us to compassion rather than contempt. Be not
too eager for rich apparel, for humility is incompatible with a love of
display. One who is too solicitous about his dress is a slave to the
opinions of men, for he certainly would not expend so much labor upon it
if he thought he would not be observed. Beware, however, of going to the
other extreme and dressing in a manner unsuited to your position. While
claiming to despise the approbation or notice of the world, many
secretly strive for it by their singularity and exaggerated simplicity.
Finally, do not disdain humble and obscure employments. Only the proud
seek to avoid these, for the man of true humility deems nothing in the
world beneath him.
CHAPTER 31
Remedies against
Covetousness
SECTION I
Against
Covetousness in General
Covetousness is
an inordinate desire for riches. Hence we regard as covetous not only
the man who steals, but also the man who passionately longs for
another's goods or too eagerly clings to his own. With great force St.
Paul condemns this vice and declares it the source of all iniquity:
"They that
will become rich fall into temptation and into the snare of the devil,
and into many unprofitable and hurtful desires, which drown men into
destruction and perdition; for the desire of money is the root of all
evil." (1Tim. 6:9-10).
When you are
assailed by this vice, arm yourself with the following considerations:
Remember that Our Lord and Saviour, at His coming into this world,
disdained to possess riches, which are the object of your desires. On
the contrary, He so loved poverty that He chose for His Mother not a
rich and powerful queen, but a poor and humble Virgin. He willed to be
born, not in a palace, but in a bleak stable, the manger of which,
covered with a little straw, was His only couch.
During His life
upon earth He never ceased to manifest His love for poverty and His
contempt for riches. For His Apostles He chose not the princes of great
houses, but poor and ignorant fishermen. What greater presumption can
there be than that of a base worm coveting riches, when the Creator of
the universe became so poor for love of him!
Consider,
moreover, your own vileness, since you are willing for a gross and
perishable interest to sacrifice your immortal soul, created to the
image of God and redeemed by His Blood, compared with which the whole
world is nothing. God would not give His life for this material world,
but He gave it for the soul of man. How much greater, therefore, must be
the value of a soul! True riches do not consist in silver, or gold, or
precious stones, but in virtue, the inseparable companion of a good
conscience. Set aside the vain opinions of men, and you will see that
these precious metals are such only by the judgment of the world, Will
you, who are a Christian, become a slave to that which even pagan
philosophers despised? "He who guards his riches like a slave is
their victim," says St. Jerome; "but he who throws off their
yoke possesses them as their lord and master."
Consider also
these words of Our Saviour: "No man can serve two masters, God and
mammon." (Matt. 6:24). Man cannot freely rise to God and the
contemplation of His beauty while he is breathless in the pursuit of
riches. A heart filled with material and earthly pleasures can never
know spiritual and divine joys. No; it is impossible to unite what is
false with what is true; what is spiritual with what is carnal; what is
temporal with what is eternal; they can never dwell together in one
heart.
There is
another truth of which you must not lose sight: The more worldly
prosperity you enjoy, the more destitute you are likely to be of
spiritual riches, for an abundance of this world's goods leads you to
trust in them rather than in God. Oh! That you knew the misery which
such prosperity prepares for you! The desire of more which springs from
the love of riches is a torment which far exceeds the pleasure we derive
from their possession. It will entangle you in a thousand temptations,
fill you with cares, and under the delusive image of pleasure plunge you
into renewed sin and prove an inexhaustible source of trouble and
disquiet. Again, riches are acquired only at the expense of pain and
labor; they are preserved only by care and anxiety; and they are never
lost without bitter vexation and grief. But, worse than all this, they
are rarely accumulated without offence against God; for, as the proverb
says, "A rich man is either a wicked man or a wicked man's
heir."
Moreover, all
the riches of the world, did you possess them, would never satisfy the
desires of your heart. They would only excite and increase them. However
great the possessions you accumulate, there will be a continual void
within you; you will never cease to long for more. In its pursuit of
worldly possessions your poor heart fruitlessly exhausts itself, for it
will never find content. It drinks deeply at the fountains of pleasure,
yet its thirst is never appeased. Its enjoyment of the possessions it
has already acquired is destroyed by an insatiable thirst for more.
Marveling at the covetousness of the human heart, St. Augustine asks:
"Whence is it that man is so insatiable in his desires, while
brutes observe a measure in theirs? They seek their prey only when they
feel the cravings of hunger, and after this is appeased they are
satisfied and rest. But the covetousness of the rich knows no limit; it
is never satisfied, but is perpetually seeking more."
Has not
experience shown you also that where there are great riches there are
many to consume, to steal, or to squander them? If you would free
yourself from all the anxiety consequent on these cares, put yourself in
the hands of God and fully confide in His providence, for He never
forsakes those who trust in Him. Since He has subjected man to the
necessity of seeking food, He will not permit him to perish from hunger.
Could God, who cares for the birds of the air and clothes the lilies of
the field, be indifferent to the necessities of one of His noblest
creatures? Life is short; every moment brings us nearer to death. Why,
then, lay up so much provision for so short a journey? Why burden
yourself with so many possessions which must necessarily impede your
progress?
When you will
have reached the end of your earthly pilgrimage, poor in this world's
goods, your wealth of real treasure will far exceed that of the
covetous, whose lives have been spent in accumulating riches. How
different will be the account exacted of you, and how readily you will
part from the little you may have of the goods of earth, because you
always esteemed them at their true value! But the rich and the covetou,
in addition to the terrible account which will be required of them, will
be rent with anguish at parting from that wealth which they loved and
adored during life.
Besides the
reflections I have suggested, I would ask: For whom are you amassing
these goods? Do you not know that you must leave this world as poor and
naked as you entered it? (Cf. Job 1:21). Think of this, says St.
Jerome, and it will be easy for you to despise the riches of this world.
(Cf. Ad Paulin. in Prol. Bib.). Beware, then, lest in the
pursuit of these you lose the treasures of eternity.
Death will rob
you of all your earthly possessions; your works, good and bad, will
alone accompany you beyond the tomb. If this dread hour finds you
unprepared, great will be your misfortune. All that remains to you will
then be distributed into three portions, your body will become the food
of worms; your soul the victim of demons, and your wealth the prey of
eager and perhaps ungrateful or extravagant heirs. Ah! Dear Christian,
follow the counsel of Our Saviour; share your wealth with the poor, that
it may be borne before you into the kingdom which you hope to enjoy.
What folly to leave your treasures in a place of banishment whither you
will never return, instead of sending them before you to that country
which is intended for your eternal home!
Again, I would
remind you that God, as a wise and sovereign Ruler, has appointed some
of His children the depositaries of His power and the dispensers of His
benefits, to guide and maintain the others. If you are of the number of
those who from their surplus possessions must contribute to the support
of the poor, do you think that you are justified in expending upon
yourself what has been given to you for the benefit of others? "The
bread which you withhold," says St. Basil, "is the food of the
poor; the garments you conceal should clothe the naked; the gold you
accumulate is the portion of the needy." Therefore, you rob the
poor whenever you refuse to succor them from your abundance. The riches
you have received from God are meant to remedy human misery, not to be
the instruments of a bad life. Therefore, do not let your prosperity
cause you to forget the Author of all your blessings, and let not those
blessings be a subject of vainglory. Do not, I conjure you, prefer a
land of exile to your true country. Do not convert into obstacles what
is meant to aid you on your journey; and do not make of the succors of
life instruments of eternal death. Be content with the condition in
which God has placed you, bearing in mind the words of the Apostle:
"Having food and wherewith to be covered, with these we are
content." (1Tim. 6:8).
"A servant
of God," says St. Chrysostom, "should never seek by his dress
to gratify his vanity or indulge his flesh; his only object should be to
comply with the necessities and requirements of his condition. Seek ye,
therefore, first the kingdom of God and His justice, and all these
things shall be added unto you." (Matt. 6:33).
Remember also
that it is not poverty but the love of poverty which is a virtue. Hence
all who voluntarily forsake wealth bear a striking resemblance to Our
Saviour, who, being rich with the riches of God, became poor for love of
us. They who are compelled to live in poverty, but bear it with
patience, never coveting the wealth which is denied them, convert their
necessity into a meritorious virtue. As the poor by their poverty
conform themselves to Jesus Christ, so the rich by their alms can
conform their hearts to the merciful Heart of this Divine Model, who in
His lowly crib received not only the shepherds with their simple tokens
of affection, but also the wise and powerful men of the East, who came
to lay at His feet the treasures of their gold and frankincense and
myrrh.
If, then, God
has given you wealth, bestow it generously on the poor, assured that it
will be laid up for you as treasure in the kingdom of Heaven; but if you
waste the means God has given you, you must not expect to find any
before you when you leave this life. Unless such a disposition is made
of your possessions, how can you call them good, since you cannot bear
them with you and enjoy them in your true home? Lay up, then, by a
worthy use of your worldly wealth, a store of spiritual possessions,
which alone are truly good, and of which, unless you freely surrender
them, not even death can deprive you.
SECTION II
Against the
unjust Detention of Another's Goods
In connection
with the evil of which we are treating, let us say a few words on the
sin of retaining the goods of another. Theft consists not only in
unjustly taking what belongs to another, but also in unlawfully
retaining it against the owner's will. Our intention to restore it later
will not suffice if we are able to do it at once, for we are obliged to
make restitution as soon as possible. Inability to make immediate
restitution justifies us in deferring it; while continued poverty, if so
great as to afford us no means, excuses us entirely, for God does not
require what is impossible.
We cannot
better explain this doctrine than by the words of St. Gregory:
"Remember that the riches you have unlawfully acquired remain in
this world, but the sins you committed in obtaining them will accompany
you into the next. How great is your folly, then, to leave your profit
here and to take only your loss with you-to afford others gratification
in this world while you endure everlasting sufferings in the world to
come!" (Epist. ad Just).
The folly of
covetousness goes still further, and causes you to sacrifice yourself,
your body and your soul, to your miserable possessions. You are like a
man who, to save his coat, exposes his body to be pierced with a dagger.
In what does your conduct differ from that of Judas, if for a little
money you will sell justice, divine grace, your soul itself? The hour of
death, at the latest, will compel you to make restitution if you would
save your soul. How incomprehensible, then, is the mad folly which
prompts you to accumulate your unlawful gains, and, by living in sin,
confessing in sin, approaching the Holy Table in sin, completely deprive
yourself of spiritual treasures which are incomparably superior to all
the wealth of this world! Is he not devoid of reason who acts in this
manner? Endeavor, therefore, to pay what you owe, even to the smallest
sum, and permit no man to suffer by your neglect. (Cf. Deut.
24:15). Do not detain the laborer's wages. (Cf. Tob. 4:15). Do
not compel him to seek and plead for what justly belongs to him, that he
may not have reason to say that it was more difficult to obtain his
wages than to earn them.
If you have the
duties of executor to fulfill, beware of defrauding departed souls of
help due them, lest their expiation may be prolonged because of a
neglect for which you must some day heavily atone. Pay your dependants
regularly, and let your accounts be carefully kept, that they may give
rise to no disputes or claims after your death. Do not wholly leave to
those who survive you the execution of your last wishes, but fulfill
them yourself as far as you are able; for if you are careless of your
own affairs, how can you expect others to be more diligent?
Make it a point
of honor to owe no man, and you will thus enjoy peaceful slumbers, a
quiet conscience, a contented life, and a happy death. The means of
acquiring these precious results is to control your desires and
appetites and to govern your expenditure by your income, not by your
caprices. Our debts proceed from our ill-regulated, uncontrolled desires
more than from our necessities, and consequently moderation is more
profitable than the largest revenues. Let us be convinced that the only
real riches, the only real treasures, are those which the Apostle bids
us seek when he tells us to fly covetousness and pursue justice,
godliness, faith, charity, patience, and mildness, for godliness with
contentment is great gain. (Cf. 1Tim. 6:6,11). Be contented with
the position in which God has placed you. Man would always enjoy peace
did he accept the portion which God gives him; but, seeking to gratify
ambition or cupidity, which craves more than God has given him, he
exposes himself to trouble and disquiet, for real happiness or success
can never be known by one who strives against the will of God.
CHAPTER 32
Remedies against
Lust
SECTION I
General Remedies
Lust is an
inordinate desire of unlawful pleasures. It is a vice most widely spread
in the world; one that is most violent in its attacks, most insatiable
in its cravings. Hence St. Augustine says that the severest warfare
which a Christian has to maintain is that in defense of chastity, for
such combats are frequent, and victories rare.
Whenever you
are assailed by this shameful vice resist it with the following
considerations: Remember, first, that this disorder not only stains your
soul, purified by the Blood of Christ, but defiles your body, in which
the thrice Holy Body of Christ has been placed, as in a shrine. If it be
a sacrilege to defile a material temple dedicated to God's service, what
must it be to profane this living temple, which God has chosen for His
dwelling? For this reason the Apostle tells us: "Fly fornication.
Every sin that a man doth is without the body, but he that committeth
fornication sinneth against his own body." (1Cor. 6:18).
Consider, secondly, that this deplorable vice necessarily involves
scandal to numerous souls and the spiritual ruin of all who participate
in your crime. This thought will cause the sinner to suffer the greatest
remorse at the hour of death; for if in the Old Law God required a life
for a life, an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth (Cf. Ex.
21:23-24), what satisfaction can be offered Him for the destruction of
so many souls, purchased at the price of His Blood?
This
treacherous vice begins in pleasure, but ends in an abyss of bitterness
and remorse. There is nothing into which man is more easily drawn, but
nothing from which he is with more difficulty freed. Hence the Wise Man
compares an impure woman to a deep ditch, a narrow pit, to show how
easily souls fall into this vice, but with what difficulty they are
extricated. Man is first allured by its flattering aspect, but when he
has assumed the sinful yoke, and particularly when he has cast aside all
shame, it requires almost a miracle of grace to deliver him from his
degrading bondage. For this reason it is justly compared to a
fisherman's net, which the fish easily enter, but from which they rarely
escape. Learn, too, how many sins spring from this one vice; for during
this long captivity of the soul how often is God offended by thoughts,
words, and desires, if not by actions?
The evils which
it brings in its train are no less numerous than the sins it occasions.
It robs man of his reputation-his most important possession, for there
is no vice more degrading or more shameful. It rapidly undermines the
strength, exhausts the energy, and withers the beauty of its victim,
bringing upon him the most foul and loathsome diseases. It robs youth of
its freshness, and hurries it into a premature and dishonorable old age,
It penetrates even to the sanctuary of the soul, darkening the
understanding, obscuring the memory, and weakening the will. It turns
man from every noble and honorable work, burying him so deeply in the
mire of his impurities that he can neither think nor speak of anything
but what is vile.
Nor are the
ravages of this vice confined only to man himself. They extend to all
his possessions. There is no revenue so great that the exactions and
follies of impurity will not exhaust; for it is closely allied to
gluttony, and these two vices combine to ruin their victim. Men given to
impurity are generally addicted to intemperance, and squander their
substance iri rich apparel and sumptuous living. Moreover, their impure
idols are insatiable in their demands for costly jewels, rich
adornments, rare perfumes, which gifts they love much better than they
love the donors, their unfortunate victims. The example of the prodigal
son, exhausting his inheritance in these pleasures, shows how terrible
is such a passion.
Consider,
further, that the more you indulge in these infamous gratifications, the
more insatiable will be your desire for them, the less they will satisfy
you. It is the nature of these pleasures to excite the appetite rather
than appease it. If you consider how fleeting is the pleasure and how
enduring its punishment, you will not for a moment's enjoyment sacrifice
the unspeakable treasure of a good conscience in this life and the
eternal happiness of Heaven in the next. St. Gregory, therefore, has
truly said that the pleasure is momentary, but the suffering is eternal.
(Moral. 9,44).
Consider also
the nobility and the value of virginal purity, which this vice destroys.
Virgins begin here below to live as angels, for the beauty of these
glorious spirits is reflected in the splendor of their chastity.
"Living in the flesh," says St. Bernard, "and despising
its allurements is more angelic than human." (In Nat. Virg.).
"Virginity,"
says St. Jerome, "is the virtue which, amid the corruption of this
mortal life, best represents the perfection of immortal glory. It brings
before us the happy condition of the celestial City, where there is no
marrying, and gives us a foretaste of eternal joy." (De
Virginitatis Laude). Hence virginity is specially rewarded in
Heaven. St. John tells us that virgins follow the Lamb whithersoever He
goeth. (Cf. Apoc. 14:4). They have risen above their fellow men
in their imitation of Christ. They will therefore be more closely united
to Him for all eternity, and will find in the spotless purity of their
bodies a source of ineffable joy.
Virginity not
only renders man like unto Christ, but makes him the temple of the Holy
Spirit. For this Divine Lover of purity abhors whatever is defiled, and
delights to dwell in chaste souls. The Son of God, who was conceived of
the Holy Ghost, so loved purity that He wrought His greatest miracle to
preserve the purity of His Virgin Mother. If you have suffered the loss
of this beautiful virtue, learn from the temptations which wrought the
evil to guard against a second fall.
If you have not
preserved the gift of chastity in the perfection in which God gave it to
you, endeavor to restore the beauty of the Creator's work by giving
yourself to His service with a zeal and fervor born of deep gratitude
for forgiven sin, and with an ardent desire to repair the past. "It
often happens," says St. Gregory, "that one who was tepid and
indifferent before his fall becomes, through repentance, a strong and
fervent soldier of Christ." (Past., p1). Finally, since God
continued to preserve your life after you had so basely offended Him,
profit by this benefit to serve Him and make reparation for your sins,
lest another fall should be irremediable.
SECTION II
Particular
Remedies
Besides these
general remedies there are others more special, and perhaps more
efficacious. The first of these is vigorously to resist the first
attacks of this vice. If we do not resist it in the beginning, it
rapidly acquires strength and gains an entrance to our souls. "When
a taste for sinful pleasures," says St. Gregory, "takes
possession of a heart, it thinks of nothing but how to gratify its
inordinate desires." (Moral. 21,7). We must, then, struggle
against it from the beginning by repelling every bad thought, for by
such fuel is the flame of impurity fed. As wood nourishes fire, so our
thoughts nourish our desires; and, consequently, if the former be good,
charity will burn in our breast but if they are bad, the fire of
lust will certainly be kindled.
In the second
place, we must carefully guard our senses, particularly the eyes, that
they may not rest upon anything capable of exciting sinful desires. A
man may inflict a deep wound upon his soul by inconsiderately turning
his eyes upon a dangerous object. Prudently guard your eyes in your
intercourse with the other sex, for such glances weaken virtue.
Hence we are
told by the Holy Ghost: "Look not round about thee in the ways of
the city. Turn away thy face from a woman dressed up, and gaze not upon
another's beauty." (Ecclus. 9:7-8). Think of Job, that great
servant of God, of such tried virtue, who kept so vigilant a guard over
his senses that, in the expressive language of Scripture, he made a
covenant with his eyes not so much as to think upon a virgin.
(Cf. Job 31:1). Behold also the example of David, who, though
declared by God to have been a man after His own Heart, yet fell into
three grievous crimes by inconsiderately looking upon a woman.
Be no less
watchful in protecting your ears from impure discourses. If unbecoming
words are uttered in your presence, testify your displeasure by at least
a grave and serious countenance; for what we hear with pleasure we learn
to do with complacency. Guard with equal care your tongue. Let no
immodest words escape you; for "evil communications," says the
Apostle, "corrupt good morals." (1Cor. 15:33). A man's
conversation discovers his inclination, for, to quote the words of the
Gospel, from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
Endeavor to
keep your mind occupied with good thoughts and your body employed in
some profitable exercise, "for the devil," says St. Bernard,
"fills idle souls with bad thoughts, so that they may be thinking
of evil if they do not actually commit it."
In all
temptations, but particularly in temptations against purity, remember
the presence of your guardian angel and of the devil, your accuser, for
they both witness all your actions, and will render an account of them
to Him who sees and judges all things. If you follow this counsel, how
can you, before your accuser, your defender, and your Judge, commit a
base sin, for which you would blush before the lowest of men? Remember
also the terrible tribunal of God's judgment and the eternal flames of
Hell; for as a greater pain makes us insensible to a less, so the
thought of the inexhaustible fire of Hell will render us insensible to
the fire of concupiscence.
In addition to
all this, be very guarded in your intercourse with women, and beware of
continuing alone with one for any length of time; for, according to St.
Chrysostom, the enemy attacks men and women more vigorously when he
finds them alone. He is bolder when there are no witnesses present to
thwart his artifices. Avoid the society of women who are not above
suspicion, for their words inflame the heart, their glances wound the
soul, and everything about them is a snare to those who visit them with
imprudent familiarity. Be mindful of the example of the elders (Cf. Dan.
13), and let not old age render you less prudent. Do not trust to your
own strength; and let not a habit of virtue inspire you with
presumptuous confidence. Let there be no improper interchange of
presents, visits, or letters, for these are so many snares which
entangle us and reawaken dangerous affections. If you experience any
friendship for a virtuous woman let your intercourse be marked by grave
respect, and avoid seeing her too often or conversing too familiarly
with her. But, as one of the most important remedies is avoiding
dangerous occasions, we. shall give an example from the Dialogues
of St. Gregory to show you with what prudence holy souls guard this
angelic virtue.
There lived in
the province of Mysia a holy priest who was filled with the fear of God,
and who governed his church with zeal and wisdom. A very virtuous woman
had charge of the altar and church furniture. This holy soul the priest
loved as a sister, but he was as guarded in his intercourse with her as
if she were his enemy. He never permitted her to approach him or
converse familiarly with him, or enter his dwelling, thus removing all
occasions of familiarity; for the saints not only reject unlawful
gratifications, but forbid themselves even innocent pleasures when there
is the slightest indication of danger to the soul. For this reason the
good priest would never allow her to minister to him, even in his
extreme necessities.
At an advanced
age, after he had been 40 years in the sacred ministry, he fell gravely
ill, and was soon almost at the point of death. As he lay in this
condition, the good woman, wishing to discover whether he still lived,
bent over him and put her ear to his mouth to listen to his breathing.
The dying man, perceiving her, indignantly exclaimed, "Get thee
hence, woman! Get thee hence! The fire still glows in the embers. Beware
of kindling it with straw!" As she withdrew he seemed to gain new
strength, and raising his eyes, he cried out with a loud voice,
"Oh! Happy hour! Welcome, my lords, welcome! I thank you for
deigning to visit so poor a servant. I come! I come!" He repeated
these words several times, and when they who were present asked him to
whom he spoke, he said with astonishment, "Do you not see the
glorious Apostles St. Peter and St. Paul?" And, raising his eyes,
he again cried, "I come! I come!" and as he uttered these
words he gave up his soul to God.
An end so
glorious was the result of a prudent vigilance which cannot be too
highly extolled; and such confidence at the hour of death seemed a
fitting reward for one who during life had been filled with a holy fear
of God. (Dial. 4,11).
CHAPTER 33
Remedies against
Envy
Envy consists
in grieving at another's good or repining at another's happiness. The
envious man looks with hatred upon his superiors who excel him, upon his
equals who compete with him, upon his inferiors who strive to equal him.
Saul's envy of David and the Pharisees' envy of Christ could only be
satisfied by death; for it is the character of this cruel vice to stop
at nothing until it has compassed its end. Of its nature it is a mortal
sin, because, like hatred, it is directly opposed to charity. However,
in this, as in other sins, there are degrees which do not constitute a
mortal sin, as, for example, when hatred or envy is not grave, or when
the will does not fully consent.
Envy is a most
powerful, a most injurious vice. It is spread all over the world, but
predominates particularly in the courts of kings and in the society of
the rich and powerful. Who, then, can be free from its attacks? Who is
so fortunate as to be neither the slave nor the object of envy? From the
beginning of the world history abounds with examples of this fatal vice.
It was the cause of the first fratricide which stained the earth, when
Cain killed Abel. (Cf. Gen. 4). It existed between the brothers
Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, and the latter fell a victim to
the envy of the former. Behold its effects in the brothers of Joseph,
who sold him as a slave. (Cf. Gen. 37); in Aaron and Mary, the
brother and sister of Moses. (Cf. Num. 12). Even the disciples of
Our Lord, before the coming of the Holy Ghost, were not wholly free from
it.
Ah! When we see
such examples, what must we expect to find among worldlings, who are far
from possessing such sanctity, and who are seldom bound to one another
by any ties? Nothing can give us an idea of the power of this vice or
the ravages it effects. Good men are its natural prey, for it attacks
with its poisoned dart all virtue and all talent. Hence Solomon says
that all the labors and industries of men are exposed to the envy of
their neighbors. (Cf. Eccles. 4:4).
Therefore, you
must diligently arm yourself against the attacks of such an enemy, and
unceasingly ask God to deliver you from it. Let your efforts against it
be firm and constant. If it persevere in its attacks, continue to oppose
an obstinate resistance, and make little account of the unworthy
sentiments it suggests. If your neighbor enjoys a prosperity which is
denied you, thank God for it, persuaded that you have not merited it or
that it would not be salutary for you. Remember, moreover, that envying
the prosperity of others does not alleviate your own misery, but rather
increases it.
To strengthen
your aversion to this vice, make use of the following reflections:
Consider, first, what a resemblance the envious man bears to the devils,
who look with rage upon our good works and the heavenly reward we are to
receive for them. They have no hope of the happiness of which they would
deprive us, for they know that they have irretrievably lost it; but they
are unwilling that beings created out of dust should enjoy honors of
which they have been dispossessed. For this reason St: Augustine says,
"May God preserve from this vice not only the hearts of all
Christians, but of all men, for it is the special vice of devils, and
one which causes them the most hopeless suffering." The crime of
Satan is not theft or impurity, but enviously seeking, after his fall,
to make man imitate his rebellion. This is truly the feeling which
actuates the envious.
Oftentimes the
prosperity of others is no prejudice to them; they could not profit by
what they strive to take from their neighbor; but they would have all
equally miserable with themselves. If, then, the possessions which you
envy in another could not be yours were he dispossessed of them, why
should they be a cause of grief to you? When you envy the virtue of
another you are your own greatest enemy; for if you continue in a state
of grace, united to your neighbor through charity, you have a share in
all his good works, and the more he merits the richer you become. So
far, therefore, from envying his virtue, you should find it a source of
consolation. Alas! Because your neighbor is advancing, will you fall
back? Ah! If you would love in him the virtues which you do not find in
yourself, you would share in them through charity; the profit of his
labors would also become yours.
Consider,
moreover, how envy corrodes the heart, weakens the understanding,
destroys all peace of soul, and condemns us to a melancholy and
intolerable existence. Like the worm which eats the wood in which it is
engendered, it preys upon the heart in which it was given birth. Its
ravages extend even to the countenance, whose paleness testifies to the
passion which rages within. This vice is itself the severest judge
against its victim, for the envious man is subjected to its severest
tortures. Hence certain authors have termed it a just vice, not
meaning that it is good, for it is a most heinous sin, but meaning that
it is its own greatest punishment.
Consider,
again, how opposed is the sin of envy to charity, which is God, and to
the common good, which everyone should promote to the best of his
ability; for when we envy another's good, when we hate those to whom God
unceasingly manifests His love, when we persecute those whom He created
and redeemed, do we not, at least in desire, strive to undo the work of
God?
But a more
efficacious remedy against this vice is to love humility and abhor
pride, which is the father of envy. A proud man, who cannot brook a
superior or an equal, naturally envies all who appear to excel him,
persuading himself that he descends in proportion as another rises.
Hence the Apostle says, "Let us not be desirous of vain glory,
provoking one another, envying one another." (Gal. 5:26). In
other words, let us destroy the root of envy, which is vainglory.
Let us wean our
hearts from worldly honors and possessions, and seek only spiritual
riches, for such treasures are not diminished when enjoyed by numbers,
but, on the contrary, are increased. It is otherwise with the goods of
the earth, which must decrease in proportion to the numbers who share
them. For this reason envy finds easy access to the soul which covets
the riches of this life, where one necessarily loses what another gains.
Do not be
satisfied with feeling no grief at the prosperity of your neighbor, but
endeavor to benefit him all you can, and the good you cannot give him
ask God to grant him. Hate no man. Love your friends in God, and your
enemies for God. He so loved you while you were still His enemy that He
shed the last drop of His Blood to save you from the tyranny of your
sins.
Your neighbor
may be wicked, but that is no reason for hating him. In such a case
imitate the example of a wise physician, who loves his patient, but
hates his disease. We must abhor sin, which is the work of man, but we
must always love our neighbor, who is the work of God. Never say in your
heart: "What is my neighbor to me? I owe him nothing. We are bound
by no ties of blood or interest. He has never done me a favor, but has
probably injured me." Reflect rather on the benefits which God
unceasingly bestows upon you, and remember that all He asks in return is
that you be charitable and generous, not to Him, for He has no need of
you or your possessions, but to your neighbor, whom He has recommended
to your love.
CHAPTER 34
Remedies against
Gluttony
Gluttony is an
inordinate love of eating and drinking. Our Saviour warns us against
this vice, saying, "Take heed to yourselves lest your hearts be
overcharged with surfeiting and drunkenness, and the cares of this
life." (Lk. 21:34).
When you feel
the promptings of this shameful disorder, subdue them by the following
considerations: Call to mind that it was a sin of gluttony which brought
death into the world, and that it is the first and most important
passion to be conquered, for upon the subjugation of this vice depends
your victory over all others. We cannot successfully battle with enemies
abroad when the forces within us are in a state of rebellion. Thus we
see that the devil first tempted Our Saviour to gluttony, wishing to
make himself master of the avenue through which all other vices find an
easy entrance.
Consider also
Our Saviour's extraordinary fast in the desert and the many other
rigorous mortifications which He imposed upon His Sacred Body, not only
to expiate our excesses, but to give us a salutary example. How, then,
can you call yourself a follower of Christ, if, when He fasts, you
abandon yourself to the gross pleasures of the table? He refuses no
labor, no suffering, to redeem you, and you will do nothing for your own
salvation!
If you find
abstinence difficult, think of the gall and vinegar which were given to
Our Saviour on the cross; for as St. Bernard tells us, there is no food
so unpleasant that it may not be made palatable by mingling it with this
bitter draught. Frequently reflect upon the terrible austerities and
wonderful fasts observed by the Fathers of the desert; how they fled
from the world to remote solitude, where, after the example of Christ,
they crucified their flesh with all its irregular appetites, and,
sustained by God's grace, subsisted for many years on no other food but
roots and herbs. Behold how these men imitated their Divine Model;
behold what they thought necessary to reach Heaven. How can you gain
this same Heaven by the path of gross and sensual pleasures? Think of
the innumerable poor who are in need of bread; and at the sight of God's
liberality to you, blush to make the gifts of His bounty instruments of
gluttony. Consider, again, how often the Sacred Host has rested upon
your tongue, and do not permit death to enter by that gate through which
life is conveyed to your soul.
We may say of
gluttony what we have said of impurity, that its pleasures are equally
restricted and fleeting. Yet earth, sea, and air seem unable to gratify
this passion, for many crimes are perpetrated, the poor are defrauded
and oppressed, and little ones compelled to suffer hunger, to satisfy
the sensuality of the great. It is deplorable to think that for the
gratification of one sense man condemns himself body and soul to eternal
suffering. What incomprehensible folly to flatter with such delicate
care a body which is destined to be the food of worms! For this
miserable body you neglect your soul, which will appear before the
tribunal of God as poor in virtues as its earthly companion is rich in
sensual pleasures. Nor will the body escape the punishment to which the
soul will be condemned. Having been created for the soul, it will share
its sufferings. Thus by neglecting the nobler part of your being to
devote yourself to the inferior, you lose both and become your own
executioner.
To excite in
your heart a salutary fear of this vice, recall to mind what is related
in the Gospel of Lazarus, of his poverty, of his hunger which craved the
crumbs which fell from the rich man's table, and how he was carried by
angels to Abraham's bosom; while the rich man, who fed upon delicacies
and was clothed in purple and me linen, was buried in the depths of
Hell. Moderation and gluttony, temperance and excess, will not reap the
same fruit in the next world. To patient suffering will succeed
ineffable happiness, and sensual pleasures will be followed by eternal
misery. What remains to you now of the pleasures of your guilty
excesses? Nothing but remorse of conscience, which will be the principal
torture of the life to come. All that you have lavished upon your
ungoverned appetite you have irrevocably lost, but that which you have
given away to the poor is still yours, for its merit is laid up in the
kingdom of Heaven.
That you may
not be deceived by the snares of this vice disguised as necessities,
govern your appetite by reason, not by inclination. Remember that your
soul can never rule the flesh, if it be not itself submissive to God.
This submission will be the rule and foundation of its empire. Let God
command our reason; let reason direct the soul, and the soul will be
able to govern the body. By observing this wise order decreed by the
Creator, the whole man will be reformed. But when the soul rebels
against reason, and reason against God, the body will soon rebel against
the soul.
If tempted by
gluttony, remember that you have already tasted its pleasures and that
they endured but a moment. They passed like a dream, except that while
the light of day dispels the images of the night, the remorse for
gluttony remains long after its pleasure has departed. But overcome this
enemy, and you will experience consolation and peace. Therefore, the
following wise saying has justly become celebrated: "If you find
difficulty in the performance of a virtuous action, the trouble is soon
past and the virtue remains; but if you take pleasure in committing a
base action, its pleasure disappears, but its shame continues with
you." (Aul. Gel., Noct. Attic. 8,15).
CHAPTER 35
Remedies against
Anger and Hatred
Anger is an
inordinate desire of revenge. Against this vice the Apostle strongly
speaks: "Let all bitterness and anger, and indignation and clamor,
and blasphemy be put away from you, with all malice. And be ye kind one
to another, merciful, forgiving one another, even as God hath forgiven
you in Christ." (Eph. 4:31-32). And Our Saviour Himself
tells us: "Whosoever is angry with his brother shall be in danger
of the judgment. And whosoever shall say, thou fool, shall be in danger
of hell fire." (Matt. 5:22).
When this
furious enemy assails you, let the following considerations help you
overcome its movements: Consider, first, that even beasts live at peace
with their kind. Elephants do not war upon one another; sheep live
peaceably in one fold; and cattle go together in herds. We see the
cranes taking by turns the place of guard at night. Storks, stags,
dolphins, and other creatures do the same. Who does not know of the
friendship between the ants and the bees'! Even the wildest animals live
united among themselves, One lion is rarely known to attack another,
neither will a tiger devour one of his kind. Yes, even the infernal
spirits, the first authors of all discord, are united in a common
purpose the perversion of mankind. Man alone, for whom peace is most
fitting, lives at enmity with his fellow men and indulges in implacable
hatred. All animals are born with weapons for combat. The bull has
horns; the boar has tusks; the bird has a beak and claws; the bee has a
sting, and even the tiny fly or other insect has power to bite. But man,
destined to live at peace with his fellow creatures, comes into the
world naked and unarmed. Reflect, then, how contrary to your rightful
nature it is to seek to be revenged upon one of your kind, to return
evil for evil, particularly by making use of weapons which nature has
denied you.
In the second
place, a thirst for vengeance is a vice which befits only savage beasts.
You belie your origin, you disgrace your descent, when you indulge in
ungovernable rage, worthy only of a wild animal. Ζlian tells of a lion
that had been wounded by an African in a mountain defile. A year after,
when this man passed the same way in the suite of King Juba, the lion,
recognizing him, rushed among the royal guards, and, before he could be
restrained, fell upon his enemy and tore him to pieces. Such is the
model of the angry, vindictive man. Instead of calming his fierce rage
by the power of reason, that noble gift which he shares with the angels,
he abandons himself to the blind impulse of passions which he possesses
in common with the brutes.
If it be hard
to subdue your anger, excited by an injury from one of your fellow
creatures, consider how much more God has borne from you and how much He
has endured for you. Were you not His enemy when He shed the last drop
of His Blood for you? And behold with what sweetness and patience He
bears with your daily offenses against Him, and with what mercy and
tenderness He receives you when you return to Him.
If anger urges
that your enemy does not deserve forgiveness, ask yourself how far you
have merited God's pardon. Will you have God exercise only mercy toward
you, when you pursue your neighbor with implacable hatred? And if it be
true that your enemy does not deserve pardon from you, it will be
equally true that you do not deserve pardon from God. Remember that the
pardon which man has not merited for himself, Christ has superabundantly
merited for him. For love of Him, therefore, forgive all who have
offended you.
Be assured,
moreover, that as long as hatred predominates in your heart you can make
no offering which will be acceptable to God, who has said: "If thou
offer thy gift at the altar, and there thou remember that thy brother
hath anything against thee, leave there thy offering before the altar,
and go first to be reconciled to thy brother, and then coming thou shalt
offer thy gift." (Matt. 5:23-24). Hence you can realize how
grievous is the sin of enmity among men, since it causes an enmity
between God and us, and destroys the merit of all our good works.
"We gain no merit from good works," says St. Gregory, "if
we have not learned to endure injuries with patience." (Moral.
21:16).
Consider also
that the fellow creature whom you hate is either a just man or a sinner.
If a just man, it is certainly a great misfortune to be the declared
enemy of a friend of God. If a sinner, it is no less deplorable that you
should undertake to punish the malice of another by plunging your own
soul into sin. And if your neighbor in his turn seeks vengeance for the
injury you inflict upon him, where will your enmities end? Will there be
any peace on the earth?
The Apostle
teaches us a more noble revenge when he tells us "not to be
overcome by evil, but to overcome evil by good" (Rom. 12:21
) that is, to triumph by our virtues over .the vices of our
brethren. In endeavoring to bc revenged upon a fellow creature you are
often disappointed and vanquished by anger itself. But if you overcome
your passion, you gain a more glorious victory than he who conquers a
city. Our noblest triumph is won by subduing ourselves, by subjecting
our passions to the empire of reason, ,
Besides these,
reflect on the fatal blindness into which this passion leads man. Under
the cover of justice or right, how often does it drive him to excesses
which cause him a lifelong remorse!
The most
efficacious, the sovereign remedy against this vice is to pluck from
your heart inordinate love of self and of everything that pertains to
you. Otherwise the slightest word or action directed against you or your
interests will move you to anger. The more you are inclined to this vice
the more persevering you should be in the practice of patience. Accustom
yourself, as far as you can, calmly to face the contradictions and
disappointments you are likely to encounter, and their effect upon you
will thus be greatly diminished.
Make a firm
resolution never to speak or act under the influence of anger, nor to
heed any suggestions, however plausible, which your heart may urge at
such moments. Never act until your anger has subsided, or until you have
once or twice repeated the Our Father or some other prayer. Plutarch
tells of a wise man who, on taking leave of a monarch, advised him never
to speak or act in anger, but to wait until he had repeated to himself
the letters of the alphabet. Learn a lesson from this, and avoid the
evil consequences of acting from the impulse of anger.
Though there is
no time more unfavorable for action, yet there is no time in which we
feel ourselves more strongly impelled to act than when in anger. This is
an additional reason for opposing, with all our strength, the
suggestions of this passion. For as a man intoxicated with wine is
incapable of acting according to reason, and afterwards repents of what
he has done in such a condition, so a man beside himself with passion,
intoxicated with anger, is incapable of any action of which he will not
repent in his calmer moments. Anger, wine, and sensuality are evil
counselors. "Wine and women," says Solomon, "make wise
men fall off." (Ecclus. 19:2). By wine he means not only the
liquor which stupefies the intellect, but all violent passion which
blinds the judgment. Bear in mind also that you are held responsible for
sins committed in such a state. Another very salutary remedy is to turn
your thoughts to other things when excited to anger, and to endeavor to
banish from your mind the subject which irritates you; for if you take
away the fuel of a fire the flame soon expires. Endeavor also to love
him with whom you are forced to be forbearing, for patience which is not
accompanied with love, being only exterior, is often changed into
hatred. Hence, when the Apostle tells us that charity is patient, he
immediately adds that it is kind (Cf. 1Cor. 13:4); for true
charity loves those whom it patiently endures. Finally, if you have
excited the anger of your neighbor, quietly withdraw until his passion
has subsided, or at least answer him with mildness, for "a mild
answer breaketh wrath." (Prov, 15:1).
CHAPTER 36
Remedies against
Sloth
Sloth is a
reluctance to attend to duty, and, according to Cassian, it is
especially a weariness or distate for spiritual things. The peril to
which this vice exposes us is clearly set forth in these words of Our
Saviour: "Every tree that bringeth not forth good fruit shall be
cut down and shall be cast into the fire." (Matt. 7:19).
Against its evil effects He again warned His disciples when, exhorting
them to diligence, the opposite of sloth, He told them to watch and
pray, for they knew not when the Lord of the house would come. (Cf. Mk.
13:35).
Therefore, if
this shameful vice attack you, banish it by the thoughts we are about to
suggest.
First call to
mind the extraordinary labors which Our Lord endured for you; the many
sleepless nights He spent in prayer for you; His weary journeys from
city to city, healing the sick, comforting the sorrowful, and raising
the dead. How ardently, how unceasingly He devoted Himself to the work
of our redemption! Consider particularly how, at the time of His
Passion, He bore upon His bruised and bleeding shoulders the heavy
weight of His cross for love of you. If the God of majesty labored thus
to deliver you, will you refuse to cooperate in your own salvation? When
this tender Lamb endured such rude labors to free you from your sins,
will you endure nothing to expiate them? Remember, too, the weary labors
of the Apostles, who preached the Gospel to the whole world. Think of
the sufferings endured by the martyrs, confessors, virgins, anchorites,
and by all who are now reigning with Christ. It was by their teaching
and their toil that the Faith of Christ spread through the known world
and that the Church has been perpetuated to the present day.
Turn your eyes
towards nature, and you will find nothing idle. The heavens, by their
perpetual motion, unceasingly proclaim the glory of their Creator. The
sun, moon, and stars, with all the brilliant planets which people almost
infinite space, daily follow their courses for the benefit of man. The
growth of plants and trees is continual until they have attained their
appointed strength and proportions, Behold the untiring energy with
which the ant labors for its winter's food; with which the bees toil in
building their hives and storing them with honey. These industrious
little creatures will not allow an idler to exist among them; the drones
are all killed. Throughout nature you find the same lesson.
Will not man,
therefore, blush for a vice which the instinct of irrational creatures
teaches them to avoid? To what labor do not men condemn themselves for
the acquisition of perishable riches, the preservation of which, when
they are obtained, is an ever-increasing source of care and anxiety! You
are striving for the kingdom of Heaven. Will you show less energy, will
you be less diligent, in toiling for spiritual treasures, which can
never be taken from you?
If you will not
profit by time and strength to labor now, a day will come when you will
vainly seek these present opportunities. Sad experience tells us how
many have thus been disappointed. Life is short, and obstacles to good
abound. Do not; therefore, let the promptings of sloth cause you to lose
advantages which will never return, for "the night cometh when no
man can work." (Jn. 9:4).
The number and
enormity of your sins demand a proportionate penance and fervor to
satisfy for them. St. Peter denied his Master three times, but never
ceased to weep for his sin, though he knew it had been pardoned. St.
Mary Magdalen to the end of her life likewise bewailed the disorders of
her youth, though she heard from Our Saviour's lips these sweet words:
"Thy sins are forgiven thee." Numerous are the examples of
those who, returning to God, continued during life to do penance for
their sins, though many of them had offended God far less grievously
than you.
You daily heap
up your sins; and can you consider any labor too severe to expiate them?
Oh! Profit by this time of grace and mercy to bring forth fruits worthy
of penance, and by the labors of this life to purchase the eternal
repose of the next. Our works in themselves are paltry and
insignificant, but united to the merits of Christ they acquire infinite
value in the sight of God. The labor endures but a short time; the
reward will continue for eternity. We are told of a saint who was wont
to exclaim at the striking of the clock: "O my God! Another hour
has flown one of those hours sent me in which to work out my
salvation, and for which I must render an account to Thee." Let his
example inspire us with a determination to profit by the time which is
given us to lay up works for eternal life.
If overwhelmed
with labors, remember that we must enter Heaven by the way of
tribulation, and that he only will be crowned who strives lawfully. (Cf.
2Tim. 2:5). If tempted to abandon the struggle, remember that it
is written: "He that shall persevere unto the end, he shall be
saved." (Matt. 10:22). Without this perseverance, our labor
will neither bear fruit nor merit reward. Our Saviour would not descend
from the cross when asked by the Jews, for the work of our redemption
was not yet accomplished. If, then, we desire to follow in the footsteps
of our Divine Model, let us labor to the end with unwearied zeal. Is not
the reward which awaits us eternal? Let us continue to do penance; let
us carry our cross after Christ. What will it avail us to have weathered
the storms and triumphed over the perils of the sea of life, if we
suffer shipwrecks as we are about to enter the port of eternal rest?
Let not the
duration or difficulty of the labors alarm you. God, who calls you to
combat, will give you victory. He sees your weakness; He will support
you when you falter, and He will reward you when you conquer. Reanimate
your failing courage, not by comparing the difficulties of virtue with
the pleasures of vice, but by comparing the labor which precedes virtue
with the trouble which surely follows vice. Place side by side the
fleeting pleasure of sin and the eternal happiness of virtue, and you
will see how preferable is God's service to the fatal repose to which
sloth allures you.
Yet do not
allow victory to render you indolent, for success often lulls us into a
dangerous confidence. Never abandon your arms; for your enemies never
sleep, and life without temptations is as impossible as a sea of
perpetual calm. A man is usually tempted most at the beginning of a good
life, for the devil has no need to tempt those who have abandoned
themselves to his control. But he is unceasing in his efforts against
those who have resolved to give themselves to God. Therefore, let him
never find you unprepared, but, like a soldier in an enemy's country, be
always ready for combat.
If you are
sometimes wounded, beware of throwing away your arms and surrendering in
dismay. Rather, imitate those brave warriors whom the shame of defeat
spurs to more heroic resistance and greater deeds of valor. Thus you
will rise from a fall with new strength. You will see the enemy to whom
you were formerly submitted now flying before you. And if, as it may
happen in battle, you are repeatedly wounded, do not lose heart, but
remember that the valor of a soldier does not consist in escaping
wounds, but in never surrendering. We do not call a combatant defeated
when he is covered with wounds, but when he loses courage and abandons
the field. And when you are wounded lose no time in applying a remedy;
for one wound is more easily cured than two, and a fresh wound more
quickly than one that has been inflamed by neglect. Do not be satisfied
with resisting temptation, but gather from it greater incentives to
virtue, and with the assistance of God's grace you will reap profit
rather than harm from the attacks of the enemy.
If you are
tempted to gluttony or sensuality, retrench something from your usual
repasts, even though they in no way exceed the limits of sobriety, and
give yourself with more fervor to fasting and other practices of
devotion. If you are assailed by avarice, increase the amount of your
alms and the number of your good works. If you feel the promptings of
vainglory, lose no opportunity of accepting humiliations. Then, perhaps,
the devil may fear to tempt you, seeing that you convert his snares into
occasions of virtue, and that he only affords you opportunities of
greater good. Above all things fly idleness. Even in your hours of
relaxation do not be wholly unoccupied. And, on the other hand, do not
be so absorbed in your labors that you cannot from time to time raise
your heart to God and treat with Him in prayer.
CHAPTER 37
Other Sins to be
avoided
SECTION I
On Taking the
Name of God in Vain
Besides the
seven capital sins of which we have been treating, there are others
which a good Christian should avoid with equal diligence.
The first is
taking God's name in vain. This sin directly attacks the majesty of God
and is more grievous than any of which we could be guilty against our
neighbor. And this is true not only when we swear by God's holy name,
but when we swear by the cross, by the saints, or by our own salvation.
Any of these oaths, if taken falsely, is a mortal sin. Holy Scripture
frequently speaks of the heinousness of such offenses against God. It is
true that if one swears inadvertently to what is false the offense is
not a mortal sin, which requires the full knowledge of the intellect and
the full assent of the will. But this restriction does not apply to
those who have a habit of confirming their statements by careless oaths
without making any effort to correct themselves. Those who swear in this
way, without weighing the import of their words, are culpable for this
very negligence. Nor will it avail them to urge that the intention of
swearing to what is false was furthest from their thoughts. They
persevere in a bad habit without any attempt to overcome it, and
therefore they must bear its consequences.
A Christian, if
he would not constantly expose himself to the guilt of mortal sin,
should earnestly endeavor to conquer a habit so pernicious. To this end
let him follow the counsel given us by Our Saviour, and which St. James
repeats in these words: "Above all things, my brethren, swear not,
neither by heaven, nor by the earth, nor by any other oath. But let your
speech be, yea, yea; no, no; that you fall not under judgment." (James
5:12). By these words we are taught the danger of contracting a habit of
careless swearing which may eventually lead us to swear falsely, and so
to fall under the sentence of eternal death. Swearing in "truth,
judgment, and justice" (Jer. 4:2), as the prophet declares,
is the only swearing that is justifiable. That is, we should swear only
to what is true in a just cause, and with deliberation.
But we should
not be satisfied with merely shunning the vice of taking God's name in
vain; we should excite a horror of it in our children and servants, and
reprove it whenever we encounter it. If at times we inadvertently fall
into it, we should impose upon ourselves some penance of a prayer, or an
alms, not only to punish ourselves, but to impress on our minds the
determination of avoiding it in the future.
All that has
been said applies especially to blasphemy and perjury. Beware also of
that vice known as cursing. The Name at whose mention "every knee
in heaven, on earth, and in hell should bow down" in reverence (Phil.
2:10) should be used only with devotion and affection. Strive,
therefore, to speak with piety of the holy Name of God, and do what you
can by your prayers, your exhortations, and your example to banish the
terrible evil of which we have been speaking.
SECTION II
On Detraction
and Raillery
The abominable
sin of detraction is so prevalent at the present day that there is
scarcely a society, a family, an individual not guilty of it. There are
some persons so perversely inclined that they cannot bear to hear any
good of another, but are always alive to their neighbor's faults, always
ready to tear his character to pieces.
To excite in
your heart a salutary hatred of this detestable and dangerous vice,
consider the three great evils which it involves. First, it always
borders upon mortal sin, even when it is not actually such. From
criticisms and censures, with which people generally begin, we easily
fall into detraction or calumny. Detraction is committed when we tell
another's real faults; calumny, when the fault we mention is not real,
but the invention of our malicious lies. Thus, though we may not be
guilty of calumny, how often does it happen that a person, from
criticizing the failings of others which are generally known, is
gradually led to mention some hidden and grave sin which robs him of his
reputation and his honor! That the fault revealed is true in no manner
saves the detractor from the guilt of mortal sin.
The descent to
such a crime is easy; for when the tongue of the detractor is started,
and a desire to embellish his story seizes him, it is as difficult to
restrain him as to extinguish a fire fanned by a high wind, or to stop a
horse when he has taken the bit in his teeth and is dashing madly on. It
is the fear of this evil which led the author of Ecclesiasticus to cry
out: "Who will set a guard before my mouth and a sure seal upon my
lips, that I fall not by them, and that my tongue destroy me not?"
(Ecclus. 22:33). He keenly realized the difficulties in the way,
knowing, as Solomon says, that "it is the part of man to prepare
the soul, and of the Lord to govern the tongue." (Prov.
16:1).
The second evil
of this vice consists in the threefold injury which it inflicts
namely, on the one who speaks, on him who listens with approval, and on
the victim who is assailed in his absence.
In addition to
this, the person who complacently listens to detraction is frequently a
talebearer. To ingratiate himself with the victims of the detraction he
carries to them all that has been said against them, and thus excites
enmities which are seldom extinguished, and which sometimes end even in
bloodshed. "The whisperer and the double-tongued is accursed,"
we are told in the Sacred Scriptures, "for he hath troubled many
that were at peace." (Ecclus. 28:15).
To teach us the
baneful effects of this insidious vice, the Holy Ghost compares it at
one time to the swift blow of a "sharp razor" (Ps.
51:4); at another time to the bite of the poisonous asp, (Cf. Ps.
13:3), which disappears, but leaves its venom in the wound. With reason,
then, did the author of Ecclesiasticus say: "The stroke of a whip
maketh a blue mark, but the stroke of the tongue will break the
bones." (Ecclus. 28:21).
The third evil
of this vice is the horror it inspires and the infamy which it brings
upon us. Men fly from a detractor as naturally as they would from a
venomous serpent. "A man full of tongue," says Holy Scripture,
"is terrible in his city, and he that is rash in his word shall be
hateful." (Ecclus. 9:25). Are not these evils sufficient to
make you abhor a vice so injurious and so unprofitable? Why will you
make yourself odious in the sight of God and men for a sin from which
you can reap no advantage? Remember, moreover, that in no other vice do
we so quickly form a habit, for every time we speak with others we
expose ourselves to the danger of relapsing.
Henceforward
consider your neighbor's character as a forbidden tree which you cannot
touch. Be no less slow in praising yourself than in censuring others,
for the first indicates vanity and the second a want of charity. Speak
of the virtues of your neighbor, but be silent as to his faults. Let
nothing that you say lead others to think that he is naught but a man of
virtue and honor. You will thus avoid innumerable sins and much remorse
of conscience; you will be pleasing to God and men; and you will be
respected by all as you respect others. Put a bridle upon your tongue
and learn to withhold an angry word when your heart is moved. Believe
me, there is no control more difficult and at the same time more noble
and advantageous than that which a wise man exercises over his tongue.
Do not think yourself guiltless because you artfully mingle your
malicious insinuations with words of praise. In this respect the
detractor is like the surgeon, who soothingly passes his hand over the
vein before piercing it with the lancet: "His words are smoother
than oil, and the same are darts." (Ps. 54:22).
To refrain from
speaking ill of others is always a virtue, but it is a still greater
virtue to refrain from reviling those who have injured us; for the
greater the injured feeling which prompts us to speak, the greater is
our generosity in resisting it.
Nor is it
sufficient not to indulge in detraction; you must also endeavor to avoid
hearing it. Be faithful to the counsel of the Holy Spirit, who tells you
to "hedge in thy ears with thorns, and hear not a wicked
tongue." (Ecclus. 28:28). Observe that you are not told to
hedge in your ears with cotton, but with thorns, that you may not only
repel the words of the detractor, but that you may pierce him, and, by
showing him a grave countenance, teach him how displeasing to you is his
conduct.
"The north
wind driveth away rain," says Solomon, "as doth a sad
countenance a backbiting tongue." (Prov, 25:23). Impose
silence, therefore, upon the detractor, if he be your inferior or one
whom you can reprove without offense. If you cannot do this, prudently
endeavor to turn the conversation, or show by the severity of your
countenance that his conversation is not pleasing to you. Beware of
hearing the detractor with smiling attention, for you thus encourage
him, and consequently share in his guilt. It is a grievous offense to
set fire to a house, but it is scarcely less culpable to stand idly by
witnessing its destruction instead of aiding in extinguishing the
flames.
But of all
detractions, that which is directed against virtuous persons is the most
sinful. It not only injures the person assailed, but tends to discourage
others who are beginners in virtue, while it confirms the cowardice of
those who will not risk our censures by striving to do good. For what
would be no scandal or stumbling block to the strong may prove an
insurmountable obstacle to the weak. If you would appreciate the evil of
this kind of scandal, reflect upon these words of Our Saviour: "He
that shall scandalize one of these little ones that believe in me, it
were better for him that a millstone should be hanged about his neck,
and that he should be drowned in the depth of the sea." (Matt.
18:6). Avoid, therefore, as you would a sacrilege, all scandalous
reflections upon persons consecrated to God. If their conduct furnish
matter for censure, nevertheless continue to respect the sacred
character with which they are invested, for it is of them that Our
Saviour has said: "He that toucheth you, toucheth the apple of my
eye." (Zach. 2:8).
All that we
have said of detraction applies with still more reason to those who make
others the object of derision and raillery; for this vice, besides
having all the evil consequences of the first two, presupposes pride,
presumption, and contempt for one's neighbor. In the Old Law God
especially warns us against it: "Thou shalt not be a detractor, nor
a whisperer among the people." (Lev. 19:16). We have no need
to insist upon the enormity of this vice; what we have said on the
subject of detraction is sufficient.
SECTION III
On Rash
Judgments
Those who are
addicted to detraction and raillery do not confine themselves to what
they know, but indulge in suppositions and rash judgments. When they no
longer find matter to censure they invent evil intentions, misinterpret
good actions, forgetting that Our Saviour has said: "Judge. not,
that you may not be judged; for with what judgment you judge you shall
be judged." (Matt. 7:1-2). Here also the offense may
frequently be a mortal sin, particularly when we venture to judge in a
matter of grave importance upon. very slight evidence. If it be only a
suspicion, not a real judgment, it may be only a venial sin, because the
act has, not been completed. Even by suspicion, however, a mortal sin
can be committed by suspecting virtuous persons of enormous crimes.
SECTION IV
On the
Commandments of the Church
Besides these
sins against the Commandments of God there are those against the
commandments of the Church, which also impose upon us a grave
obligation. Such are the precepts to hear Mass on Sundays and holy days
of obligation; to confess our sins at least once a year, and to receive
the Holy Eucharist at Easter or thereabouts; to pay tithes to our
pastor, and to observe the days of fasting and abstinence prescribed by
the Church. The precept of fasting is binding from the age of 21 and
upwards; that of abstinence obliges all who have attained the age of
reason. The sick, the convalescent, nursing women, women in pregnancy,
those whose labors are severe, and those who are too poor to afford one
full meal a day, are exempt from the law of fasting. There may be other
lawful reasons for dispensation, for which the faithful ought to apply
to their pastor or confessor, and not take it upon themselves to set
aside the law of the Church.
The difference
between abstinence and fasting should be remembered. By fasting we mean
eating only one full meal in the day, with a slight collation in the
evening. By abstinence we mean giving up the use of flesh-meat. It
should be borne in mind, therefore, on Ember days and at other times of
fast, that the law is not fulfilled by simply abstaining from meat.
Unless you are excused by some of the reasons given above or by
dispensation, you must observe the fast by eating only one full meal,
with the collation in the evening, and a warm drink, with a cracker or
small piece of bread, in the morning.
In regard to
hearing Mass, we must endeavor to be present at the Holy Sacrifice not
only in body but in mind, with silence and recollection, having our
thoughts fixed upon the mystery of the altar, or upon some other pious
subject. The recital of devout prayers, especially the Rosary, is an
excellent means of keeping ourselves united with God. If we are at the
head of a house we must be careful to see that all under our charge hear
Mass, not only on Sundays, but also on holy days. Too much laxity
regarding holy days is apt to prevail among those who earn their bread
by the sweat of their brow. They should remember that the obligation to
hear Mass on a holy day is the same as the obligation to hear it on
Sunday. Consequently, they must make serious and sincere efforts to
comply with this duty. To attend an early Mass may involve the loss of a
little sleep, but they should remember that these holy days occur but
seldom, and that they must do something to atone for their sins and to
merit the kingdom of Heaven. Parents and employers will have a severe
account to render to God if they cause or permit those confided to their
care to neglect this sacred duty. When there is a just reason, such as
the care of the sick or any other pressing necessity which prevents
Mass, we are released from the obligation.
CHAPTER 38
Venial Sins
Though the sins
of which we have been treating are those which we should avoid with most
care, yet do not think that you are dispensed from vigilance in regard
to venial sins. I conjure you not to be one of those ungenerous
Christians who make no scruple of committing a sin because it is venial.
Remember these words of Holy Scripture: "He that contemneth small
things shall fall by little and little." (Ecclus. 19:1).
"Do not despise venial sins because they appear trifling,"
says St. Augustine, "but fear them because they are numerous. Small
animals in large numbers can kill a man. Grains of sand are very small,
yet, if accumulated, they can sink a ship. Drops of water are very
small, yet how often they become a mighty river, a raging torrent,
sweeping everything before them!"
The holy Doctor
goes on to observe that though no number of venial sins can constitute a
mortal sin, yet these slighter failings predispose us to greater faults,
which often become mortal. St. Gregory observes with equal truth that
slight faults are sometimes more dangerous than greater ones, for the
latter, when we behold their hideousness, awaken remorse and resolutions
of amendment; but the former make less impression on us, and thus, by
easily relapsing into them, we soon contract a strong habit.
Finally, venial
sin, however slight, is always prejudicial to the soul. It weakens our
devotion, troubles the peace of our conscience, diminishes the fervor of
charity, exhausts the strength of our spiritual life, and obstructs the
work of the Holy Ghost in our souls. I pray you then to do all in your
power to avoid these sins, for there is no enemy too weak to harm us if
we make no resistance. Slight anger, gluttony, vanity, idle words and
thoughts, immoderate laughter, loss of time, too much sleeping, trivial
lies or flatteries such are the sins against which I would
particularly warn you. Great vigilance is required against offenses of
this kind, for occasions of venial sin abound.
CHAPTER 39
Shorter Remedies
against Sins, particularly the Seven Deadly Sins
The means we
have already suggested will suffice to strengthen you in virtue and arm
you against vice. The following short considerations, however, you can
use with advantage at the moment of temptation. They were found among
the writings of a man of great sanctity, who had himself experienced
their efficacy.
In temptations
to pride he would say: When I reflect upon the depth of humility to
which the Son of God, the second Person of the Blessed Trinity,
descended for love of me, I feel that, however profound a contempt men
may have for me, I yet deserve to be still more humbled and despised.
When attacked
by covetousness he would think: Having once understood that nothing but
God can satisfy the heart, I am convinced of the folly of seeking
anything but this supreme Good.
In assaults
against purity he would reflect: To what a dignity has my body been
raised by the reception of the Holy Eucharist! I tremble, therefore, at
the sacrilege I would commit by profaning with carnal pleasures this
temple in which God has chosen to dwell.
Against anger
he would defend himself by saying: No injury should be capable of moving
me to anger when I reflect upon the outrages I have offered my God.
When assailed
by temptations to hatred he would answer the enemy: Knowing the mercy
with which God has received me and pardoned my sins, I cannot refuse to
forgive my greatest enemy.
When attacked
by gluttony he would say: I call to mind the vinegar and gall which were
offered to Our Saviour on the cross, and shall I not blush if I do not
deny my appetite or endure something for the expiation of my sins?
In temptations
to sloth he would arouse himself by the thought: Eternal happiness can
be purchased by a few years of labor here below; shall I, then, shrink
from any toil for so great a reward?
In a word which
some attribute to St. Augustine, and others to St. Leo, we find similar
remedies which are equally efficacious. The author shows us on one side
the allurements with which each vice solicits us, and on the other the
arguments with which we must resist it.
Pride is the
first to address us, in the following deceitful language: You certainly
excel others in learning, eloquence, wealth, rank, and many other
things. Being so superior, therefore, you have every reason to look down
upon them. Humility answers: Remember that you are but dust and ashes,
destined, as rottenness and corruption, to become the food of worms; and
were you all that you imagine, the greater your dignity the greater
should be your humility if you would escape a miserable fall. Does your
power equal that of the angels who fell? Do you shine upon earth as
Lucifer shone in Heaven? If pride thrust him from such a height of glory
to such an abyss of misery, how can you, a slave to the same pride,
expect to rise from your wretchedness to the honor from which he fell?
Vainglory
speaks thus: Yes, do all the good you can, but publish it, so that the
world may regard you as a man of great virtue and treat you with
consideration and respect, Fear of God answers: It is great folly to
devote to the acquisition of temporal renown that which can obtain for
you eternal glory. Endeavor to hide your good actions, and if they
appear in spite of your efforts to conceal them it will not be accounted
vanity in you when you have no desire to display them.
Hypocrisy
counsels: Assume the good qualities you do not possess, and make men
think you better than you are, that you may not excite their contempt.
Sincerity answers: It is better to be virtuous than to try to appear so.
By attempting to deceive others you will only cause your own ruin.
Rebellion and
Disobedience argue: Why should you be subject to those who are your
inferiors? It is your place to command and theirs to obey, for they are
inferior to you in wisdom and virtue. It suffices to obey the laws of
God; you have no need to be bound by the commands of man. Submission and
Obedience answer: The law of God obliges you to submit to the authority
of man. For has not God said, "He that heareth you heareth me, and
he that despiseth you despiseth me" (Lk. 10:16)? Nor can you
urge that this injunction is only to be observed when he who commands is
wise and virtuous, for the Apostle says, "There is no power but
from God; and those that are, are ordained of God." (Rom.
13:1). Therefore, your duty is not to criticize those in authority, but
to obey them.
Envy whispers:
In what are you inferior to such men whom others extol? Why should you
not enjoy the same and even greater consideration, for you excel them in
many things? It is unjust that they should be ranked as your equals;
with much less reason should they be placed above you. Brotherly Love
answers: If your virtue exceeds that of others it is safer in obscurity,
for the greater the elevation to which a man is raised, the greater is
the danger of his fall. If the possessions of others equal or exceed
yours, in what does it prejudice you? Remember that by envying others
you only liken yourself to him of whom it is written: "By the envy
of the devil death came into the world; and they follow him that are of
his side." (Wis. 2:24-25).
Hatred says:
God cannot oblige you to love one who contradicts and opposes you, who
continually speaks ill of you, ridicules you, reproaches you with your
past failings, and thwarts you in everything, for he would not thus
persecute you if he did not hate you. True Charity answers: We must not,
because of these deplorable faults, cease to love the image of God in
our fellow creatures.
Did not Jesus
Christ love His enemies who nailed Him to the cross? And did not this
Divine Master, before leaving the world, exhort us to imitate His
example? Drive, then, from your heart the bitterness of hatred and yield
to the sweetness of fraternal charity. Independently of your eternal
interests, which impose this duty upon you, there is nothing sweeter
than love, and nothing more bitter than hatred, which preys like a
cancer on the heart of its victim, where it was first engendered.
Detraction
exclaims: It is impossible to be silent any longer about the faults of
such a one. Is not concealment condoning them and rendering ourselves
partakers of them? Charity, which appreciates the duty of fraternal
correction, answers: You must neither publish your neighbor's sins nor
be accessory to them; but reprove him with mildness and patiently bear
with him. Moreover, it is the part of wisdom sometimes to ignore the
faults of another until a favorable opportunity occurs for warning him
against them.
Anger cries
out: How can you bear such affronts? It does not become you to submit
calmly to such injuries. If you do not resent them you will be insulted
with impunity. Patience answers: Reflect upon the ignominy Our Saviour
endured for you, and there is no wrong which you will not bear with
meekness. Remember also these words of St. Peter: "Christ suffered
for us, leaving you an example that you should follow his steps. Who,
when he was reviled, did not revile; when he suffered, he threatened
not." (1Pet. 2:21,23).
Consider also
how trifling are our sufferings compared to the torments He endured for
us. He was buffeted, scourged, spat upon, crowned with thorns, covered
with ignominy, and nailed to a cross. And, though all these were borne
for us, yet how quickly we are enraged by a trifling word or a slight
incivility!
Hardness-of-heart
urges: It profits nothing to speak kindly to stupid, ignorant men who
will probably presume upon your kindness and become insolent. Meekness
answers: Do not hearken to such thoughts, but heed the words of the
Apostle: "The servant of the Lord must not wrangle, but be mild
towards all men." (2Tim. 2:24). Inferiors should endeavor
with no less care to bear themselves with meekness and respect towards
their superiors, and beware of presuming, as many do, upon the kindness
and gentleness of those in authority.
Presumption and
Imprudence argue thus: God witnesses your actions; what do you care,
then, how they affect others? Prudence answers: You owe a duty of
edification to your neighbor, and your actions should furnish him no
reason to suspect evil. Beware, therefore, of scandalizing another, even
in acts that are good but misunderstood. If the reproofs of your
neighbor are well-founded, humbly acknowledge your fault; if you are
guiltless, avow your innocence with no less sincere humility.
Sloth and
Indolence suggest: If you apply yourself to study, prayer, meditation,
and tears you will injure your eyes. If you prolong your vigils and
fasts you will weaken your body and unfit yourself for spiritual
exercises. Industry and Zeal answer: Who has assured you many years for
the performance of these good works? Are you sure of tomorrow, or even
of the present moment? Have you forgotten these words of Our Saviour.
"Watch ye, therefore, because you know not the day nor the
hour" (Matt. 25:13)? Arise, then, and cast aside this
indolence which has seized you, for the kingdom of Heaven, which suffers
violence, is not for the slothful, but for the violent who will bear it
away. (Cf. Matt. 11:12).
Covetousness
insinuates: Do not give any of your possessions to strangers, but keep
them for yourself and your own. Mercy answers: Remember the lesson of
the covetous rich man of the Gospel who was clothed in purple and fine
linen; he was not condemned for taking what did not belong to him, but
for not giving from his abundance. (Cf. Lk. 16:22). From the
depth of Hell he begged for a drop of water to quench his thirst; but it
was denied him, because he had refused to the poor man at his gate even
the crumbs which fell from his table.
Gluttony urges:
God created all these things for us, and he who refuses them despises
the benefits of God. Temperance answers: True, God created these things
for our maintenance, but He willed that we should use them with
moderation, for He has also imposed upon us the duty of sobriety and
temperance. It was principally a disregard of these virtues which
brought destruction upon the city of Sodom. (Cf. Ezech. 16:49).
Therefore, a man, even when enjoying good health, should consult
necessity rather than pleasure in the choice of his food. He has
perfectly triumphed over this vice who not only limits the quantity of
his food, but who denies himself delicacies except when necessity,
charity, or politeness prompts him to accept them.
Loquacity tells
us: It is no sin to talk much if you say no evil, as, on the contrary,
it does not free you from fault to allege that your words are few if
what you have said is bad, Discreet Reserve answers: That is true; but
great talkers seldom fail to offend with the tongue. Hence the Wise Man
says, "In the multitude of words there shall not want sin." (Prov.
10:19). And if you are so fortunate as to avoid injurious words against
your neighbor, you will hardly avoid idle words, for which, however, you
must render an account on the last day. Be reserved and moderate,
therefore, in your speech, that a multiplicity of words may not entangle
you in sin.
Impurity
counsels thus: Profit now by the pleasures life offers you, for you know
not what may happen tomorrow; it is unreasonable to restrict the
pleasures of youth, which passes like a dream. If God had not willed us
the enjoyment of these pleasures, He never would have created us as we
are. Chastity answers: Be not deceived by such illusions. Consider what
is prepared for you. If you live pure lives on earth you will be
rewarded hereafter with ineffable and eternal joys. But if you abandon
yourself to your impure desires you will be punished by torments equally
unspeakable and eternal. The more sensible you are of the fleeting
nature of these pleasures, the more earnestly you should endeavor to
live chastely; for wretched indeed is that hour of gratification which
is purchased at the expense of endless suffering.
All that we
have said in the preceding pages will furnish you with spiritual arms to
triumph over your enemies. If you follow these counsels you will take
the first step in virtue; that is, you will extirpate your vices. Thus
will you defend your soul, the citadel which God has confided to your
care, and in which He wills to take up His abode. If you defend it
resolutely and faithfully you will enjoy the presence of this heavenly
Guest, for the Apostle tells us that "God is charity, and he that
abideth in charity abideth in God, and God in him." (l Jn.
4:16). Now, he abides in charity who does nothing to destroy this
virtue, which perishes only by mortal sin, against which the preceding
considerations may be applied as a preventive or remedy.
Chapters
40-48
Index to The Sinner's Guide
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