Month 8. Widowhood
Elizabeth's husband had planned for some time to go on crusade with the
Emperor Frederick II, to free the Holy Land from Muslim control. He
began his road south to embark in Italy in June 1227. Elizabeth rode to
the very edge of his territories with him, because it was so hard to say
goodbye. She was expecting their third child in less than three months.
Ludwig was waiting in Otranto, Italy to embark for the Holy land when
a serious epidemic spread through the crusaders' camp. He died of it on
September 11, 1227. The news was brought to Elizabeth shortly after her
daughter Gertrude's birth. Whe she heard that her husband was dead, she
cried, "A He is dead, dead,
and the world and everything that is sweet in the world is dead to me!@
By the time, some months later, when her husband’s remains were
brought back from Italy, she had accepted her loss as God's will, as a
sacrifice, and prayed in these moving words: " Lord, I give you thanks
for having mercifully consoled me by these bones of my husband which I
have so much desired. Great as was my love for him, you know that I do
not begrudge the sacrifice that my beloved and I made of himself to you
for the liberation of the Holy Land. If I could have him, I would give
the whole world for him, and go begging with him forever. But I call
upon you to witness that, I would not want to redeem his life, even if
it cost but a single hair, if it were against your will. Now I recommend
myself and him to your grace. May your will for us be done."
Elizabeth believed that our sacrifices to God should be made
willingly and from a full heart: She said: "Give to the Lord what you
have and gladly." She echoed Job's words: ""The Lord has given, the Lord
has taken away, blessed be the name of the Lord" (Job 1:21).