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St. Hyacintha, born in 1585, belonged to a wealthy and
prominent family. Her father was Count Antonio of Mariscotti, her mother
descended from the princely Roman family of the Orsini.
After her younger sister had been given in
marriage, the disappointed Clarice, as Hyacintha was then called, entered the
convent of the Tertiaries at Viterbo, but apparently only as a secular
Tertiary. She permitted herself to be supplied with all sorts of things by way
of eatables and articles of dress which enabled her to enjoy quite an
agreeable and comfortable existence. Her rooms were furnished with much
worldly apparatus. The spirit of mortification and of penance with which every
Tertiary ought to be equipped was in no wise discernible to her.
Then it happened that she was afflicted with a
strange illness, and her confessor was obliged to go to her rooms to
administer the sacraments to her. When he saw the worldly and frivolous
objects in her cell, he sharply reproved the sick sister. Following her
confessor's advice, she afterwards went to the common refectory and there,
with a rope around her neck, begged forgiveness of her fellow sisters for the
scandal she had given them.
However, it was only after she had invoked the aid
of St. Catherine of Siena, that she dispossessed herself of all frivolous and
unnecessary objects, and thereupon resolutely entered upon a life of heroic
virtue.
She began to lead a very penitential life, in which
she persevered unto the end. She went barefoot, wore an old habit that had
been discarded by another sister, and performed the lowliest and most trying
tasks. She ate only inferior food with which she mixed bitter herbs. Her bed
consisted of a few bare boards, on which there was but a single blanket; a
stone served as her pillow. She fostered a special devotion to the sufferings
of Christ; and in memory of them, she subjected herself to special austerities
on Fridays and in Holy Week. She also entertained a filial love for Mary, the
Mother of Mercy, who sometimes appeared to her and comforted her.
Enriched by every virtue and held in great repute
by her fellow sisters, she died in the 55th year of her age, in the year of
our Lord 1640. Many miracles occurred at her grave for which reason Pope
Benedict XIII placed her in the ranks of the blessed.
In the year 1807 she was canonized by Pope Pius
VII.
ON ACCEPTING REPRIMANDS IN THE PROPER SPIRIT 1.
How fortunate it was for Hyacintha that her confessor rebuked her so severely
though he knew of her distinguished descent and saw that she was on her
sickbed. It is really a great charity to us if a person points out our faults
to us in a becoming manner. Every man has his faults. But often we are unaware
of them; self-love hides them from us and, unfortunately, those that call
themselves our friends, also try to palliate them and justify them, so that we
can truly say, "Those who praise me, do not love me." Thus it is also written
in Holy Scripture: "Open rebuke is better than hidden love. Better are the
wounds of a friend than the deceitful kisses of an enemy" (Prov 27:5). -- Have
you always counted those as your benefactors who have reprimanded you, and do
you have the courage to extend this charity to others when it is
seasonable? 2. Consider what folly it is to resent a well meant reprimand.
What would have happened to Hyacintha if she had not accepted the reprimand
given her by her confessor? When a person corrects you, he gives you a mark of
his confidence, for evidently he regards you as virtuous enough to accept it
in good par, otherwise it would be foolish to reprimand you. If you resent it,
he will certainly be very careful not to correct you again; but in the end you
will have to hear more severe reproaches when you stand before the judgement
seat of God. Therefore do not shut the door of your heart to wholesome
admonition, but be grateful to him who administers it. -- Has this been your
way in the past? Do you perhaps also have the courage calmly to accept an
unmerited reprimand? 3. Because friends that are true enough to correct us
are so rare, we should be all the more anxious to profit from admonitions that
are given in general. Such admonitions are given in sermons and in spiritual
reading. On such occasions one is so readily inclined to refer everything that
is faulty to others, or, when a reproof does strike home, to take offense at
the author. It is the enemy of the soul who is back of all this and who is
endeavoring to prevent our amendment. Do not let yourself be led astray by
him, but rather be grateful to God, who so kindly leads us, erring sheep, back
to the fold. From now on, strive to apply to yourself all the admonitions you
meet with in sermons or in spiritual reading.
PRAYER OF THE CHURCH O God, who didst transform
the holy virgin Hyacintha into a sacrifice of continual mortification and
love, grant through her example and intercession that we may bewail our sins
and love Thee at all times. Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
from:
The Franciscan Book
of Saints, ed. by
Marion Habig, ofm., © 1959 Franciscan Herald
Press
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